Hi Friends!
Few days back I was having a conversation with a friend and he said "My father wants me to become a doctor."
Then I gave some advice on that, It is his choice whether to take it or not. (I have made a blog on this issue too in my earlier blog. To read that click here.
Now coming to this topic.
It is you who is responsible for your own future (good or bad). I hope it is not bad.
Human gets influenced from surrounding easily, specially from relatives, friends or girlfriend/boyfriend.
People tend to change habit and choice according to their beloved. I am not saying it is bad but if a person who plays good cricket is made to play football just because his/her beloved likes it then its the person's waste of potential and knowledge which he/she has in cricket.
Some of them feel bad to say no if someone asks them to switch over to something the other like.
But saying no doesn't makes you a bad person, in fact it shows your maturity and responsibility towards your own future.
Do whatever you feel is good for your future even though if it has a small percentage of benefit.
Give your potential a medium to build your future.
Because at last you will be the one responsible for what you will be. Don't give yourself a chance to blame other afterwards for your loss.
Be influenced by others only if you like it and when the thing is good for you and is not hurting others at present or in future in anyway.
Be mature enough to think about your own good.
AND
Enjoy!
Few days back I was having a conversation with a friend and he said "My father wants me to become a doctor."
Then I gave some advice on that, It is his choice whether to take it or not. (I have made a blog on this issue too in my earlier blog. To read that click here.
Now coming to this topic.
It is you who is responsible for your own future (good or bad). I hope it is not bad.
Human gets influenced from surrounding easily, specially from relatives, friends or girlfriend/boyfriend.
People tend to change habit and choice according to their beloved. I am not saying it is bad but if a person who plays good cricket is made to play football just because his/her beloved likes it then its the person's waste of potential and knowledge which he/she has in cricket.
Some of them feel bad to say no if someone asks them to switch over to something the other like.
But saying no doesn't makes you a bad person, in fact it shows your maturity and responsibility towards your own future.
Do whatever you feel is good for your future even though if it has a small percentage of benefit.
Give your potential a medium to build your future.
Because at last you will be the one responsible for what you will be. Don't give yourself a chance to blame other afterwards for your loss.
Be influenced by others only if you like it and when the thing is good for you and is not hurting others at present or in future in anyway.
Be mature enough to think about your own good.
AND
Enjoy!
